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Question by blackey5150: How do I maintain a marriage between 2 people with very different sex drives?

My wife and I have 2 very different sex drives. She has almost no drive due to a hormonal ondition. I on the other hand have a very strong drive. It has gotten a lot worse since we got married a few years ago. I know it is not her fault but I have a hard time getting through my day sometimes because I feel so physically frustrated. I make a lot of sexual suggestions during the day and usually get turned down. Sex for her is like a chore. We used to do it for hours before we got married. I am sooooo frustrated that I do not know what to do. How can I continue to live like this? There is so much missing in hte marriage now. It is making me "cranky" around her which does not help the situation. I try my best to control what I say and do when I am frustrated. I usually end up having a few drinks to calm me down when she turns me down or just goes to sleep. What am I supposed to do?




Best answer:

Answer by crazylegs
Perhaps you both should go for either sexual or martial counselling. They may be able to suggest a compromise that is agreeable to you both.

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